Boyfriend dating other girls
“I don’t want this to be exclusive…” was the last thing I wanted to hear. “It’s not that there’s anything wrong with you, it’s just that I don’t want to get into a relationship.” Sure, that made all the difference. I’d never been in that situation before and it was going to be interesting.
It’s ridiculous and insane, but common and therefore accepted by the masses as “the way it is.” The fact of the matter is: you can’t control anyone but yourself. And at the end of the day, everyone (including you) is going to do whatever they want to do. Moreover, you’ll find that the women that have the most success in their dating life don’t pay attention to things like worrying about what the guy is doing or “plotting and scheming” how to control the guy’s behavior.The thing I need help with is I have no idea if he’s maybe talking to and/or seeing other girls. your only choice is to figure out how to keep yourself stable and stop worrying.I personally am not interested in other boys, and while at the moment I’m still happy with seeing how things go, I just want to know how he feels it’s going with us. I’ve seen men and women make the mistake of fixating on one person and jumping way ahead into thinking about where things could lead and what their relationship could become. We have a notion in our culture that a relationship with someone somehow entitles you to that person, almost like they are your property or possession… I can guarantee that if you get wrapped up in worrying about what he’s doing, you’ll do things that will harm your chances.I have to imagine (and hope) you don’t spy on your best friends or family… You probably don’t even think about the relationship you have with them because you’re absorbed in just having a great relationship with them. Why should the future love-of-your-life be subjected to a version of you that’s paranoid, focused on “locking him down” and spying on his personal business when everyone else who you love and care about gets the best of you?I know it sounds ridiculous when I put it like that because, well, it is!